Did you BORE your partner today?

Are you sure?

How many simple questions did you ask in order to have a safe conversation so you could say you “talked to them” today?

Did you avoid the emotional conversation so you could have the safe conversation?

Here is some quick relationship math for you.
Safe = Normal = Boring = Your partner goes AWAY!

You need to do more than communicate on a SIMPLE and SAFE level. You need to communicate on an EMOTIONAL level.

But…what do you say…

When you feel like you already KNOW them?
When you really don’t want to TALK right now?
When you don’t know WHAT to say?

Here are three of the most common difficult situations to have a conversation.

• When your partner is upset about something.
• When your parter is concerned about something.
• When your partner is excited about something.

Sometimes the conversation may be a little uncomfortable, but these are the times when you partner needs you most. If you are in doubt, ask about the emotion itself. Ask where it came from and why your partner feels the way they do. Ask the RIGHT question the RIGHT way and take the relationship to a much deeper level.

Isn’t that exactly what you want?

Don’t be afraid to engage the emotion. Share the emotion with your partner and improve your relationship.  Here are over 1000 GREAT questions you can ask your partner to encourage a deeper connection. Click to learn more.http://evenbetterlove.com/recommends/1000questions