At this day and age, it’s sad to think that there are still a lot of women out there who think about attraction the old-fashioned way: that women are built to wait for men to approach them; or that in order to attract men, we have to focus a hundred-percent effort on our appearance. That is not how to attract men.
No matter what society has dictated, women are NOT just to sit and wait for a prince! Women are not to wait at a tower or sleep until Prince Charming arrives. Most especially, women are not supposed to kiss frogs and wait to get lucky.
Attraction isn’t about preparing for a grand ball and waiting for the prince to fall head over heels with your beauty; attraction is not beauty either. They’re fairy tales, that’s all they are.
But in real life? It’s different in the real world. If women don’t wake up from the fairy tale dream soon and learn the truth on how to attract men, we might wake up to a tragedy.
Here’s the truth: you have to be proactive to attract a man. She has to learn that to attract a man, she has to do something.
Women who tend to say that they never get approached are the ones who don’t really do anything to get approached. To get a guy to approach you, look at him at the very least—guys won’t approach a girl who doesn’t give him the go signal.
A lot of women don’t know this about guys. Women who get approached a lot are the ones who know how to give the go signal. That easy. This may sound weird but in a room full of men, only YOU can determine who can approach you or not.
Look around you and see if you find someone interesting. Once you find someone interesting, throw him a few meaningful glances. Best if you look at him straight in the eyes. Your glances should be subtle but communicative of your interest as well. Keeping eye contact for about 3 seconds will do. If you find he’s looking back, then there’s a good chance that he wants to approach. Give him a green light by smiling the next time you glance. If he’s interested in you as well, he’ll approach you in no time!
And that is the secret as to how to get approached—no high towers or grand balls can do that to you.
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