Do Not Discuss
Great conversations begin with the courage to discuss difficult topics.
It does NOT mean that you have to arugue, yell, and scream. It DOES mean that you share your emotions even if you feel SHY or INTIMIDATED.
Make it your business to be more creative so that you can better connect with your partner.
Love letters, poems, and gift ideas are all good and healthy ways to reach out to your partner, but when it is time to TALK what do you TALK about?
Here are three typical topics to avoid and why.
- Career – Most people work in a job they do not enjoy. They are actually more interested in talking LESS about what they do not MORE. Think outside the box and look for more interesting conversation topics for both of you.
- Education – How many times can you tell someone where you went to school? This topic may be interesting the first time, but never again. Education is important, but discussing it is not much fun.
- Pets – Do you want to learn more about the person or their pet “Fluffy”? Pets are fun, and maybe you have one too. Still, think more about how to connect with the person in the relationship and less about their pet.
So what should you do? Be interesting…be exciting! How do you do that? Here is a report with 10 great tips.